first off, happy belated birthday
chootoy! i'm sorry i missed it. i hope it was a fanfuckingtastic one!
in other news, my grandma passed away four days ago. i'm actually, surprisingly, taking it quite well. i've only cried five times. and, yes.
if i've been distant lately, or snappish, i'm sure i'll be sorry soon. and when that time comes, i'll tell you